I work in the “helping” field. It’s my 24th or 25th year in my profession and over the years, I got into the habit of working at home during non-work hours. Stereotypically speaking, the majority of us in my profession are people pleasers who go above and beyond to complete evaluation reports, progress notes, create therapy materials, etc… just to look like we have our act together and get that “pat on the back”.  We spend 80% of our time providing therapy to our students/clients and don’t have a lot of time to complete paperwork during work hours.

I declare, “NO MORE!”

I am more than a speech/language pathologist.  I chose it as my profession, and although I’ve chosen well, I will no longer let it consume me.  Don’t get me wrong, I love what I do. It’s one of my many passions, but I am more than “just an SLP” and I deserve to have a personal life. It wasn’t a requirement of any of my employers to work at home. It is something that many of us choose to do.  Pretty soon, our colleagues, supervisors, clients, and/or parents expect this from us.

“NO MORE!” 

If I cannot accomplish job expectations during my work hours, then my caseload needs reducing or I need to be paid overtime. I will no longer work without compensation.  I am only responsible for making myself happy.  I do not need acknowledgement from others in order to be happy.

“NO MORE!”

Turning down family and friends for fun and relaxation in the name of my profession will cease. I don’t know how many adventures I’ve missed out on but I’m definitely saying, “yes” in the future.  Work can wait until the next business day.

Life is short and there is still so much more to experience.  My profession does not define me. I define me and I will no longer allow myself to be bound and chained for any colleague, supervisor, or employer.  I may be viewed as lazy, a slacker, etc… because of my new boundaries.  I don’t give a damn.  I am one hell of an SLP who puts her caseload first (during work hours) and paperwork second.  When my workday is finished, I will enjoy every opportunity to expand my interests, create stronger relationships with family and friends, and accept the choices I’ve made.

Once again, I cannot change the past. I am lucky to recognize that changes were needed and know that it will affect my future.

~A. Mac